Just a simple guy

rubydat98:

I need a vacation so bad.

knyan-suave:

empty-77:

people look so different once they mean nothing to you

A sad reality; people only hold the weight you give them, once you see them for who they are, they are just people.

serial222killer:

I hate missing people that I know wouldn’t miss me

theambitiouswoman:

free-my-mindd:

You have to be ready for the things that are meant for you to align with you.

rawhoneybliss:

Things you’ll experience in March:

Peace, blessings, comfort, growth, better health, prosperity, blessings, reciprocated love, success, adventure, freedom, expansion, abundance, forgiveness, gentleness, healing, new beginnings, synchronicities, laughter, joy, fulfillment. It’s all yours.

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thesixthstar:

rottingtrouble-child:

I fucking hate the “explaining = invalidating” when it comes to apologies. Yes, sometimes a person means to invalidate you by saying this, but sometimes we genuinely just want to fucking explain our side so we can properly communicate.

I do not know what the fuck is wrong until I’m told what I’ve done wrong and feel the need to explain in order for us to see both of our sides

I like getting explanations with apologies because for me it helps lessen the damage that was done or can help clear the negative emotions.

I’ve had multiple people say it’s a sign that I’m a bad person that I don’t apologize right away, or that I’m giving excuses instead of owning up and apologizing (which is fucking hard for me to know if I’m actually in the wrong or not and people doing this shit does NOT fucking help). Apologies aren’t always just a “Sorry” one and done deal thing.

knowing that someone didn’t mean to harm you, and in fact may have been trying to help, can be comforting! knowing how they came to choose actions that harmed you can help you both collaborate to avoid harm in the future! Knowing whats going on in the mind of your loved ones can be important and bring you closer together in times of possible conflict!
An explanation is NOT an excuse, thats true, but that also means that someone explaining doesn’t mean they’re not ALSO trying to apologize on top of that!

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oneinchbarrier:

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pepsip4lom4:

I never understood the “stay till it gets better”. Why would I “stay” when you’re putting me thru trials & tribulations in the TALKING stage?! Like wat u think they gon do to you when y’all dating fr if you alr accepting the bs? A person can only do what you ALLOW them to do.

pepsip4lom4:

pepsip4lom4:

I never understood the “stay till it gets better”. Why would I “stay” when you’re putting me thru trials & tribulations in the TALKING stage?! Like wat u think they gon do to you when y’all dating fr if you alr accepting the bs? A person can only do what you ALLOW them to do.

Like would you go buy a car you test drove with an engine light & etc alr on & just hope it’s “gonna get better”?? So why treat yourself w such low respect? Literally GET SOMEBODY ELSE TO DO IT. Love will come when it’s ready. They not for you & you not for them. The end. 🫶🏽

rubydat98: